Reactionary To The Wrestling News of: TNA Wrestler Elayna Black Confronts Fan for Groping at WrestleCon: Saturday 18/04/2026 by AverageMansReviews
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Warning: there will be a some censored adult language references in one way or another, allow me to make things crystal fudgin' clear, at no point have I ever condoned fans or anyone getting familiar with any wrestler especially a female wrestler, but I am in my 40's and I keep talking about this topic and quite frankly I am getting fudged off, so yes absolutely this will be triggering to most actually who am I kidding 99.9% of you considering I have been receiving abuse for the past 24 hours referencing at minimum I am a sex offender.
This whole topic is getting boring: look I have lost count how many times I have talked
about this topic, and yet no one is remotely learning... if you choose to use
adult content sites to make money you are essentially prostitutes [because I
have had some backlash on this topic let me clarify; you are giving sexual
release for the transaction of money so by definition that would be the modern
version of being a virtual prostitute/prostitute.] So by doing so you are
lowering your standard of respect or/and expectation to make money which is
completely your choice... But and this is the big BUT don't cry victim when
something happens which goes against something you didn't sign up for, meaning
there are strange things called responsibility and/or accountability; and to me
it seems like these two words are of foreign concept, because on one hand you
are saying okay; give me lots of money and you can at minimum masturbate over
my material, that is perfectly in fine, just when you see me don't get handy or
too familiar and guess what, you can control things on the Internet, but when
you make yourself a sexual product for money which people pay for then
unfortunately some people will either see you as this precious person, which the
people coming to the defence of this wrestler are, or you're like me that
goes... and? What do you want me to do about it? You put yourself in that
position with making lots of money off your appearance which means you open
yourself to this kind of behaviour right or wrong it doesn't matter in this
point, the fact is she opens herself to this possibility... as the younger
generation say today it is; what it is or you get these individuals that think
they own you which firstly allow me to make this crystal fudgin' clear again...
you don't own these wrestlers regardless of what I think of their occupation of
adult content creating, but then again I will say it again you open yourself to
people paying this money to think they can do whatever they like which for the
final time is wrong, but depending on the person's mindset is depending where
they are coming from, so I pathetically if they think it is a business
transaction regardless of how warped their respective is.
The
uncomfortable truth/reality is; I am just simply talking about the pros and
cons of these choices that are made... as I get consistently reminded you see
what I find most interesting is... adult content creating has been normalised,
pronouns have been normalised, being disabled or less than perfect has not been
normalised; which basically means; we find all of this acceptable to be
outraged when these boundaries are crossed, but when a real life situation
occurs not of in my case my doing such as being disabled in a wheelchair for
life; I get abused in the real world or/and online; I have to keep my head down
a fair amount of time around women because if I was to sit up normally I would
be directly looking at their chest or they would feel uncomfortable, so I would
be banned from a location or comfortably reminded the only way I will ever have
sex again is if I pay for it, I mean don't you see we have emboldened broadly
speaking the haves and the have-nots, including but not limited to these life
choices and people like myself are suffering because of it, you see I have been
accused many times over the past month of projecting my situation onto others,
which is not the case however I am holding those that choose any form of sexual
occupation accountable and/or responsible for normalising this behaviour
absolutely [I mean if we are being completely honest with one another; if I was
dating a woman and she said look I am not particularly proud of this; but
during the pandemic I was going through some heavy manure; I was trying to look
after my kids, a family member got Covid-19 were they ended up in hospital, I
was struggling on all fronts especially financially; so yes I did some adult
content; such as solo stuff and got my boobies out and I still get my boobies
out for Breast Cancer Awareness fund raising so any money I make goes to that.
I would be okay but other than that; is that it? Meaning absolutely going
through a global pandemic and just getting for fair enough and you can
underline at solo stuff so all is good; I'm saying all of this; so that I
understand that back then it was a very difficult situation: but other than
that and yes we have to save the boobies; but we cool;] but I digress; because
I will tell you from many years of experience; there is nothing quite like
someone being emboldened telling you/me in this case essentially; it is the
whole package of you that needs to go and they would in most cases be fully
aware I can't change my disability or way of life much of it comes with responsibilities and then on top of that every human aspect being taken away from you; be it emotionally, mentally, physically until we get older with or without mental health issues on top realising that for 90% of the stuff you are being tarnished with you haven't actually done, but because you have a penis that is acceptable for you to be tarnished in that manner and a 10% you did wrong you were either running out of steam, tired or you were just put in a corner left to rot or you came out swinging or hell you were just growing up and experiencing life, but the second and I mean literally the second I stand up for
myself a little or you are honest when you say broadly speaking women contributed to making its way; they don't want to know or/and call it abuse and play the victim.
So
in summary; be outraged for those female wrestlers that don't do adult content,
because they have chosen a respectable way of making a living, but stop with
all of this outrage for a female wrestler that does any form of adult content,
by all means call it out, but stop treating the female wrestlers that don't do
adult content with those that do, because in itself that is disrespectful,
because I can guarantee you and I will leave it on this question of sorts; I
can guarantee you if this fan $300/£234 to slap her posterior we wouldn't be
having this topic again.