Important information/Warning: I hereby
state that I do support the hash tag #SpeakingOut or any other relating hash
tags, here is the warning throughout this blog I will be discussing things
which firstly may be unsettling and using a two sided way of seeing things in
this blog which most probably will irritate and upset some of you out there,
this is not my intention but I feel it is important to discuss things in this
way, because there is obviously underlying issues here.
Side one: I have no time for people that
are willing and knowingly undertaking these acts and their punishment should
fit the level of their crime, meaning my perspective changes from someone that
may have done something minor in comparison to this gray area to someone that
is willing and knowingly doing what they are doing and is a repeat offender, so
I believe that every situation is different.
Yes 90% of
where anyone works should be a safe working environment; I have said 90%, based
on the grounds for an example if you are a firefighter that in itself is not
exactly the most safest of occupations.
So how this
movement is unfolding by the sounds of it; it was something that was well
overdue and hopefully after this every wrestling company in the present and in
the future has a system in place where anyone can come forward with any
problems be it mental health or inappropriate sexual misdeeds or other and deal
with it by taking the right routes that they have in place at this point. I
mean whilst we are tearing down the underbelly of the wrestling industry, this is
just speculation but it does also feel like this is just a part [a very
important part] of the entire wrestling industry may need bringing into the
present times on a whole.
Side two: because I am a nice guy I will
give you one more warning this is where things may be difficult for you to
read; I will stand by those that have been wronged; but I have absolutely no
time for anyone that instigates a sexual situation then to make false
allegations or just to make false allegations.
I am very
passionate about this; because yes I may be a man, but as you may have guessed
by this point I really do have a problem with sexual assault, but for those
that make up false allegations I get incredibly angry by this. Because I see it
as a waste of time and resources if the authorities are involved [so instead of
dealing with a false claim; this time and resources could be better used for an
individual that has been unfortunately but genuinely sexually assaulted] and
for the individual that has been wrongly accused which by this point there
reputation is left in ruins and having to try to rebuild after this; it is just
wrong, so I do not in most cases subscribe to the fact that a woman says it it
must be true [unless the woman in question was trying to build a relationship
with me and she was trying to tell me this I would believe or something like
this situation over someone that casually mentioned it in passing being blasé
about it,] with or without the authorities involved, in short attempt or
successfully trash a individual's good reputation [before I receive backlash
for this; do not have a go at me, focus your negative energy on those that make
false allegations up for any reason, because those are the individuals that are
making it harder for the unfortunate genuine people to come forward.] But allow
me to clarify this with crystal clear transparency if the situation is genuine
I will stand by the individual that has been wronged.
For me
personally I don't see myself getting into any form of relationship anytime
soon and by this point it has been many, many, many, many, many years. Because
at this current point and moving forward I have a number of things that are
being held against me; such as my physical disability [wheelchair,] mental
health, not very good-looking [and everything that comes with that,] Brexit,
being poor, MeToo [even though I haven't done anything wrong I get it shoved in
my face and my body is significantly damaged so I can't, I wouldn't anyway, but
I can't sexually assault anyone,] at some point in the future I expect
SpeakingOut to be put in my face at some point in the future as well, because I
also get blamed for my gender as well.
Yes I am
very much aware this movement has absolutely nothing to do with me, I am not
stupid and I did receive some backlash on social media when I said I am getting
fed up of seeing these types of hash tags and yes this is true, because I see
things from a bigger picture perspective. Meaning everything has a trickle-down
effect so I see it as "Great another thing to be potentially used against
me" which as you can see the list is getting longer and longer, so if
you're not getting the message I will say this one more time I know this
movement or any movement is not about me on this grand scale but I've learned my
place in this world and it is at the bottom so whenever any movement comes
around I expect it to be held against me at some point in the future; it's like
you know something is coming but you don't know when and just for the record I
have been systematically educated to think this way, I'm not self obsessed and
on top of that because of my mental health mixed in with street smarts I have a
very mechanical way of looking at things.
But
incidentally as soon as I blame them for them being of their species they will
not take it but it is perfectly acceptable for me to sit there and take it
because I am a man,] my history which is years old, it just shows I have life
experience in some fields, said and done some questionable and wrong things.]
I mean if I
was to get into another relationship I would feel sorry for the individual that
would have to systematically teach me many things for one example it is okay to
hug the individual in question, because currently once again I have been
systematically educated it is not okay to touch anyone anywhere, so basically
even if the woman told me "You can hug me" I still physically
couldn't do it; it's like they have a force field around them, so they would
have to show me [hug me,] I still would be terrified of where to put my hands,
in fairness and balance I do know a small amount of women that will hug me or
possibly hug me or something tiny like this; without this problem, because they
are nice people and more to the point they are straight talking people so if I
did something wrong they would tell me nicely but I wouldn't do anything wrong.
Now to end
this blog; there is a very specific reason I told you a little about myself and
it is to make this point. Be you man or woman or whatever one you feel
comfortable as, we need to be teaching the present generation and future
generations something like this;
To make the
line down the middle 50-50, because the next generations are learning it is
okay to beat someone around the head even if they have done nothing wrong or
the slightest thing wrong or throwing their history in their face even when
they have taken the right steps to better themselves [yes this is depending on
what level the crime was so something minor or gray; the person should be given
a second opportunity obviously anything higher than something gray should be
dealt with differently or if the new individual doesn't feel comfortable with
that fair enough] or something they used to do before meeting the individual in
question [this is obviously depending on the circumstances and the activity so
for an example your new partner could have slept with sex workers likewise if
they are not comfortable with this fair enough,] but since meeting the woman
they have stopped or to make as much noise about something just to get on the
bandwagon with or without some of the facts and not focusing on the real
situations of genuine sexual assault, disabilities, mental health, ethnic
issues and other important things.
So basically
what I'm saying here is focus on the real situations if there is any
substantial evidence to support any claims then I will stand by any individual,
but we also need to be supporting the wrongly accused of any criminal activity
that way it shows a strong united front of men and women of any background
saying "We will not tolerate any out and out abuse or sexual wrongdoing
above the gray area neither will we tolerate someone who wrongly accused
someone."
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